This is kinda hilarious considering my first question I asked here was how to stop feeling bad about my virginity, so I find this very ironic. I'm 17 (18 in January 2017) And my boyfriend is 6 months older than me (18). This is both of our first real relationships, and we're both fairly new to the sexual aspects of a relationship. We've been dating for 3 months and have been physically intimate for about 2 months now. Its gone past first, second, and third base, but we haven't had sex yet. I used to be so embarrassed about being a virgin, but now I don't actually know if I want to yet. Sometimes I think yes and sometimes no. We both care for each other very much and we both would like to have sex for the first time with each other, but I'm worried what will happen after that. I'm not worried about pregnancy or STD's cause I'm on the pill and again, neither of us have had sex, but I'm worried he'll loose interest or something of that nature. How do you know you're 100% ready to have sex?