Am I being strung along?

I've been dating a guy for 3 months. He says he wants to commit but can not because he is busy working, building his house and isn't able to be a good boyfriend to me. He promises I will be a priority when his house is done in a month. I have seen his house. What upsets me and has me doubting him is that he always cancels plans at the last minute and I notice he adds lots of new people, lot of pretty girls, to his facebook. I'm confused if he is jus stringing me along n saying what I want to hear or should I just be patient and trust what he says. I have caught him on a dating app before, he went off, and said he just forgot to take it down. Then I caught him again and he said he was just on it to joke around w his friend while at work. He also has gone on a few vacations but says its because they were preplanned. He has time to spend with family also. And he says he has lost a lot of friends in the process of building his house cuz he keeps cancelling plans. I really want to be w this guy and we have an amazing time together but I have my doubts about him cuz these are all red flags. What do you think?
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Asked Jun 17, 2016

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