I haven't had actual sex yet, but my boyfriend regularly fingers me and gives me oral which feels great and I reach orgasm every time. The other day we decided that it was time to have sex, after fingering me and going down on me, he slowly put it his penis but it felt very painful on the edges of the vagina (the very opening) he had barely put it in and I couldn't take the pain it felt like a paper cut in away its hard to explain but all I can say is it was painful, now why does this happen? Shouldn't I be stretched out by now? Besides he usually uses 2 fingers and goes fast so why is it painful with penis?