I am 19 years old and I am seeing a 33 year old, what do I do?

I have had a major crush on my store manager for the longest time. He's very dorky and a bit playful. He has never been married or had kids before and really never a serious relationship. I really love his personality and connect well with him. But my parent disapprove. I have been seeing him sercertly behind my parents back. He was my first kiss. I adore him truly but I have mixed feelings. I don't like hiding from my parents. It makes me feel terrible but just texting him makes me so happy. I've never been in a serious relationship and I'm in not way experienced.
Chloebloo
Asked Mar 14, 2016
The age difference is rather drastic, so I'd say you should be careful here. It's weird that he, at the age of 33, hasn't had a serious relationship. This may also help you: http://blog.nexusdate.com/how-to-build-healthy-relationships/
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Answered Mar 14, 2016
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maria888
Answered Mar 17, 2016
What do you mean "what do I do"? If you feel it's so good with him and you like him and connect well with him then continue to let the relationship grow by seeing him in anyway you can even if it has to be in secret (as you call it), because real love has no restrictions(where there is a will, there is a way), as for your parents not approving aren't you considered an adult where ever it is you live? If so then as an adult you should be capable of making your own decisions, living your life in a way that makes you happy and fulfilled which would include dating whom ever you want!

Your life decisions should always be in your control and not in the hands of someone else, because this will only lead you to live a miserable life, if you have to follow someone else's idea of what your life should be, but in reality true happiness comes from absolute control and management of your own life.

There is such a thing as privacy, which means that you have a right to not disclose whatever it may be any personal information about yourself unless you absolutely choose to do so and so you shouldn't feel guilty for dating this guy without your parents knowledge and approval, because you're not hiding from them or keeping a secret from them, you are simply exercising your personal right to privacy..
Suomynona
Answered Apr 10, 2016
Do not do it.
Thom33
Answered Apr 10, 2016

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