Need help on a life change career move family issue please help

i really want to move and change my life almost everyone tells me i'm a terrible person ,but really ive been kept back for 20 years I feel this is my last chance i'm really lost
i want to move up north, my wife is not well but says she wants to stay here in florida ,i'm broke I have a business I can start and jobs starting at 13 hr compared to 8.21 hr I dont love her anymore but was willing to take her in , her parents and brothers dont want to take care of her , I really need my freedom now! I lost two great careers choosing her over the careers i'm willing to take her in but need to move first and get her later what is my choices here I look bad no matter what

id tell her how you fell and why u want to move. if it was me I would move up north.