Basically, I have a friend and she's actually a nice person, always there for me when I need her. But, the thing is that... she only messages me when she needs help with her coursework... this has been going on since we began doing our A-Levels, and now we're in University. The main problem is that I have my own assignments to do & I do not have time to even socialise with people anymore e.g, I do not use WA anymore at all. Just probably once in a week. I've told her that I be too busy etc... but yet she keeps bugging me & the most annoying/irritating thing is that when I just casually message her to ask her how she's doing, I get no response mainly & when she needs some work doing she messages me so much. It's not like I don't want to help her, but I have commitments too, I need to manage time as well. I have never asked anyone to do my work for me... No matter how hard it maybe, or even if I have a lack of time. My work is my work; it's my RESPONSIBILITY. Because of that I've been keeping my phone on Airplane mode/Do Not Disturb mode (sounds stupid probably). I can't be mean to anyone; whether they're right or wrong if I say something which hurts them I will regret it for the rest of my life. So... am I doing the right thing by ignoring her....??? Or, do I need to be harsh (which is kinda impossible for me) =\
Asked Feb 06, 2015
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