Not sure if I should re-connect with an old friend?

The reason we ended our friendship is far too long, but to make it short, I began dating a guy she had been friends with for years, she got jealous, kissed him, and well, that was that. I tried to make our friendship better, for months after the fact, but I couldn't subside my anger towards her for betraying me. We were friend four years prior to this incident. I am now married and I wonder frequently if I should try to message her on Facebook, maybe just to talk to her. I am not sure what I want out of contacting her, do I want a new friendship with her, or do I just want to apologize? I'm not sure if I should even try, but it's on my mind so much that I feel like I should- sometimes I even dream of her and me being friends once again. I also married the man she kissed, and it has been nearly 3 years since our friendship ended. I've only talked to her once, and we were both immature and mean. I want her to remember, at least, that I am not that kind of person. I don't know. Can anyone help, throw some advice my way please. I will so appreciate it!

To me it sounds like you really do miss this person in your life for whatever reason just remember true friends are just that they don't always see things the same way and due to this they fight but if she was a good friend everyone makes mistakes but everyone don't get the chance to say I am sorry so if you have the chance then please do so if nothing else you know you tried to make things right again.