My daughter is in a relationship with my x boyfriend (my best friend for 7 yrs).

I have been in my current relationship for 3 yrs. My boyfriend and I needed help moving so we paid for the help of my daughter and her husband. Us paying them to help us move made it possible for them to move close to us. Soon, my daughter got in a fight with her husband and ended up in the sack with my ex who was at this point my best friend and because of problems in my current relationship we were even considering getting back together, which my daughter was fully aware of. I have not seen them for 6 daughter, my best friend (soul mate), my son in law, my 2 grandbabies and all of my friends (whom were mutual friends of my ex and I). Because it goes against my morals to accept that my ex was introduced for 7 yrs to my daughter as a child and was now having sex with her.
Asked Feb 04, 2014
wtf thats just soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wrong in so many ways...................I dont know what to say to that
Answered Feb 04, 2014
That is gross!! and wrong on so many levels! You need to tell them how u feel and if theyre r decent and sane (if theyre in this relationship I doubt sane!) theyll understand and break it off! They need 2 realise how gross this is! How old r they btw?

P.s. is he fit???? ;)
Answered Feb 07, 2014
Well things and people can change at any time, you're even thinking about flying back to your ex, I'm wondering if maybe it was all in your own head that you and your ex were getting back together when you and your current boyfriend started having problems, it also seems your daughter and ex could have formed some kind of closeness while you and him were dating, a closeness that couldn't be shared together back then when she was young but now that she is older and of age only made it that much more possible for it to develop.

I believe if you love your daughter and your ex then you should feel happy for them and not be feeling negative about their relationship, because nothing good ever come from negativity, it only keeps you down as you so say that your depressed and you haven't seen your friends and family for 6 months only because of your selfish moralistic values, true happiness comes from within ones self and not from an external source, and you not accepting the reality of your daughter and ex making a connection only keeps you harboring hatred, jealousy, depression, suicidal thoughts, all manor of negativity and an inability to accept closure.

Stop denying yourself to your friends and family and trying to instill whether intentionally or sub consciously a guilt trip on your ex and your own daughter by displaying immature actions and attitudes towards them in the so called name of moralistic value, which I see as nothing more then egoism selfishness and self pity on your part.
Answered Jun 07, 2016

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Answered Jul 01, 2016

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