I am 250 pounds but I only look 200. and I am self-conscious, but I really want a belly button ring :/ How to ask my parents for one? Will it hurt? I have my cartilage done already, does it feel like a really hard pinch? I don't have any creases or folds in my stomach, and am 16, My boyfriend said he thinks it would be okay if I got one because he says I look beautiful either way, and it's easy for him to say, he's skinny, but I'm just afraid and scared :( Girls answer please!