Not sure if he still loves me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and live together. We haven't had sex or cuddled in over a month. I brought up cuddling today. He had the cat on his lap but then the cat moved to his side, so there was room for me to cuddle with me. I asked him if it was okay if I cuddle with him. I can't quite remember cause I was half asleep but I remember he said the word attach, basically everytime I ask he is making excuses. I know he is not a big fan of cuddling, but he use to make an effort and he use to give me attention, but now he gives the cat almost all his attention and I told him how I felt and he says he loves me
and I have no reason to be jealous of the cat. The cat always cuddles with him unless he is not home then the kitty with cuddle with me. He won't sleep next to me anymore. He sleeps on the couch. I try to be with him on the couch by sitting by him and I fall asleep in that position, then later he wakes me up and takes me to bed and then I can't sleep. So when he woke me up and he ask me if I was tired and I said no. He said don't lie to me and I said I wanted to be with him. He didn't say I word he just left with the pillow and blanket and I'm now lying on the couch cold and alone wondering if he even cares anymore or he is asking like this because he has being going on and off on withdraws and I want him to fully quit, because he gets moody, like he knocked down a bowl that still had some soy sauce and it fell into the carpet and he exploded at me and then apologies to me and gave me hugs. So I'm just sad and confused, I don't know if he loves me anymore or not.
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Nov 01, 2013
Sit down with him a and his parents if he won't talk to you and pouts then their is something u need to find out that he is hiding probably
softball11
Answered Nov 01, 2013

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