I'm 14 and my 15 yr old boyfriend want to have sex

I'm not sure what to do. We have been together two years now. I love him more than anything. Any advice? please don't criticize me.
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Oct 11, 2013
These people are advocating something illegal - I feel I should point that out, but I'm not criticising you. the law is there for a reason.
Sex has so many consequences, pregnancy and HIV aren't the only ones!
You're 14 years old. You might think you're ready, but the likelihood is that you're probably not.
Also, you need to be certain that this is what /you/ want, not your boyfriend, or something you're pressured into.
Please think about this seriously before doing this.
If he doesn't respect you enough to not do it, and to pressure you into it if you aren't ready, then he is so, so not worth your attention or your love.
Just make sure /you/ want it, if you're going to.
Answered Oct 12, 2013
Edited Oct 12, 2013
yup I agree
okay..listen if you want to then do it just use a condom so you dont get pregnant okay if you don't tell him but you do need to "get him off" still you can do that by

1.blow job
2.hand job

or you could have anal sex with him

in my opinion I would wait till your married*yes I know a long time from now and you may not be together that long then again you might*
Answered Oct 11, 2013
If you feel it's defo the right time. Do it.
Answered Oct 11, 2013
No. No. No. If you will truly love him forever then wait the 4 or 5 years and get married
Wait till your married annoys me so much. I mean they will get bored of you by then. They will want to see everything about you
Sophiakay. Sex is not something you have due to Borden. It is sacred. Marriage will be so much better if you having had sex before. What if you break up leaving you with a bun in the oven. Condoms or pills can't always guarantee. If you get pregnant then think of the child. The kids life would never be normal
wait till your married
Answered Jun 26, 2014
Just make sure you use a condom.. every time. And get him to use an antibacterial penis health creme too. This will keep his penis extra clean for oral and other condom-less sex acts. Keep in mind that he can transfer bacteria to you very easily during any and all sex acts. So be careful! Hope this helps and good luck.
Answered Feb 02, 2017
Don't do it. Save it for when you're older because he could be trying to use you, and it is illegal. I am not judging you, but think, can this benefit you in any way? All of us, including you, know the answer to that. Also, if he isn't a virgin then that means he either did it at 13, or he has been having some extra activities. Just save it for when you're older, and if he tries to push you into it, then he doesn't really appreciate you and has no respect for you.
Answered Feb 03, 2017
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Answered Mar 04, 2014
er I dont think this is what people need

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