Im 16 and dating a 21 year old, is there something wrong with this?

Im 16 and my boyfriend is 21, he has been in my family for 11 years. He's always been there for me, he used to be like a brother to me but then our families stopped talking. When I started to talk to him again we hung out every weekend because he lives next door to me. The one day we started snuggling, this went on for 5 months and now we're dating. Our relationship is not sexual at all, we haven't even kissed yet.
Is our age difference such a big deal

hell no its good that hes older cus that means hes more mature

It may seem odd now as you are 16, which some people think is the age of a child, but a 5 year gap isn't something to worry about at all. As long as he is responsible, mature and safe with you, I think it's great. Take this relationship slow and do what makes you feel comfortable, don't let him make you do things you don't want to do just because he's an 'adult'.

Yes its wrong! I don't get how people don't see anything wrong with this. 1 its illegal in most states because now a days all relationships require sex. 2 hes 21 and is either in collage or graduated from it dating a highschooler. Doesnt it make you wonder what is so wrong with this person that they can't get someone their own age? Or maybe older than 18 and not in highschool? Or what kind of person dates children when he should be on the track to starting a life and family for himself rather than being held back by a highschooler or holding himself back by playing little kid games and dating a highschooler? And to anyone who says youre mature for dating an older guy is too naive to understand that youre both immature on a mental level to understand that his maturity level is so low that he has to date highschoolers and yours is so low that you cant see wrong in this. A guy at that age should have everything set for the begining of his life and family not setting up dates with a girl whose 5 years younger, a minor, and still in highschool. Neither of you are mature if you date.

first of all you are too young to get into any relationship. I;d suggest you to concentrate on your studies as of now and latter may be give a chance if you still feel the same for him.

im 17 and must say NO YOUR NOT TO YOUNG FOR RELATIONSHIP WE ARE YOUR 16 NOT 6! damn people annoy me if he doesnt talk about sex or kiss u just cuddles and says he loves you than no there is nothing wrong I wish the best of luck to you two