My boyfriend wants to have sex with me?please help its urgent!

My boyfriend really wants to have sex with me but i'm not sure. Im 15 and he's 20. We have been going out for a year and a half and we really love each other. he doesn't pressure me or anything but just gives slight hints. I feel really bad because he s so much older and has done it many times before. What should I do? Please help me
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Sep 12, 2013
Edited Sep 13, 2013
Ok one. I shouldn't say anything but fuck he is really old compared to you, but thats on you not my business. But if you want to have sex have it. Like this is on you. You have been dating for a year and a half you know him more than I do so you are the one to decide. Think about it if you feel ready then yes, and if not don't its not a competition you don't need to. But for a more direct answer: fuck it
Answered Sep 12, 2013
If you do not feel ready, then you do not need to do it. If your boyfriend has respect for you, then he will wait until you are 100% certain that it is what you wish to do. Until you are 100% ready, please do not do it. I cannot express how much you will regret it if you make a choice that you are not ready for.

If he does not respect your wishes, then he is not worth your time and effort, and you should move on. If he is willing to wait, then it shows that he cares for you and not 'other things'.

The age gap here makes the relationship a bit of a problem too. He is at an age where he can go out and 'get some' whenever he wants to on a night out, whereas you're still at school and still have a 'bedtime'. You need to be careful that you don't waste some of the best years of your life (yes, school! no committments, no responsibilities, no bills!) making the biggest regrets of your life.

Good luck.
Answered Sep 13, 2013
ur 15 he is 20 if someone that doesnt like you or follows the law extreemly well finds out it could be considered rape
Answered Sep 19, 2013
Just make sure you use a condom. And you should make him use one of those antibacterial penis health cremes too. These decrease the chances of a bacteria transfer during condom-less sex acts like oral etc. Trust me on this.. you are young and do not want to deal with an unwanted pregnancy, STD or some other infection. Hope this helps and good luck to you.
Answered Jan 24, 2017
I personally wouldn't, if he truly loves you he'll understand.
Answered Jan 25, 2017
no they should
do it
Answered Apr 20, 2017

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