Loosing your virginity does it really hurt that bad?

It depends on the people involved.

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It can. Just make sure you have a lot of foreplay and lubrication if needed. And make your partner use a penis health creme that has Vitamin E and shea butter in it. This will make his penis skin silky soft and smooth and will lead to an easier entry and better sex. These cremes are great.. I use one and my girlfriend is a big fan. Hope this helps.