But we're so different and our relationship is so confusing and complex sometimes.Also despite how a lot of people will argue saying "oh well you guys are in the same age group and at the same point in life...." I feel like sometimes I can't get past it.
First of all, I work with him. It's a shitty job but its helping me get some funds for college in a month or so. We work at a fast food resturant, and he happens to be a manager. Now, the general manager who is totally awesome decided not to schedule me on his shifts anymore, which irked me at first but I can see where she's coming from. The past two days I worked I ended up working with him because there was a no show. It was confusing to say the least, which i'm sure some of you can understand.
Also, he isn't in college, and didn't attend it. Mainly because he doesn't have enough money for it. But I'm going to be a college student and he lives a very different lifestyle than I do. I'm straight edge, and he smokes pot.
I've known him for about a year, and we established a friendship before we started dating so we know alot about each other. Like he keeps on saying that he used to be like me when I was his age which is why he won't let me smoke or anything. (Controlling? yes. but I can understand his reasoning).
I know he really likes me, and I like him too...but sometimes I just think that we're too different. Is that mainly because of our age difference or just because of our personalities? We talk constantly, we text each other more than we see each other, but we've been seeing each other frequently. not everyday but close.
This is also my first serious relationship, as in I'm just not thinking about myself i'm thinking about both of us and him in general. I'm afraid that if/when we break up that we won't be as close as we were before we started dating.
Should I break things off before things get even more complicated for the both of us?
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