I am not sure what your trying to say, however, I think I know what you mean. Let me know if I am wrong.
Nothing in life matters because you do not take anything to the grave, right?
All you have is your heart.
Showing people or a love one you care by your actions.
If you see a person who is poor and needs a little food, give it.
If a old man needs help lifting, lift.
If a young child needs to talk, talk.
These are forms of love and caring.
I do not believe in "buying your love BULL SHIT" Sorry for that.
I am real, so I try not to sugar coat anything.
If you love someone, who them. Be there for them when they need you.
If you are able to help and know how too, please do.
As far as talking, be you and stay calm, relax, and think before you speak.
Words are powerful and can turn people away or keep them coming.
So take your time. Find your click of people and it shall be yours.
Do not hang with people where you can not be yourself.
Good luck and I hope I really did help.