Im 14 and me and my 18 year old boyfriend are having sex what is your opinion on this?

weve been doing it for a few weeks now.we love each other . He asked me to marry him as soon as im old enough . Some people say im growing up to fast but isnt love what most people take years searching for and to find it at such a young age means I have more time to spend with my true love. I no hes not just some stupid crush because iv never felt like this about anyone until I met him. I dont think im too young for sex either isnt it a way of expressing ur love and thats what I want to do.

The thing that concerns people about what you're doing is they realize the changes that take place in a person's life between 14 and 25. Most people 14 and 18 have never fully grasped the idea that they will have to be able to support themselves and what that means. If you bypass the years you should be getting educated and go directly to adulthood you're going to have a hard life.

It's not just you. Very few 18 year old men are ready to make a life-long commitment. What they say and what they do are most often very different. You may not have felt this way before but if you think you will feel this way forever you are wrong. The emotional phase of love dies down and then it becomes a series of chores like your parents do daily.

You're doing it backwards. The way to tell if a guy really loves you is DON'T have sex with him until your life situation gets to where both of you can take responsibility for what you're doing.

im telling you this becausi care somewhat: just couple months back I got involved with my bestfriends boyfriend . he is getting ready to turn eighteen and going into the national guard. loved him like crazy. im fourteen to and I kno where your coming from and I know where this is headed. one he could get you pregnant ad then he is goin to leave you alone with a baby or two someone could call the cops on this pedophile and get him in jail. stop fooling around with this boy and find someone your age to have sex with even tho ur under the legal age to even have sex

Dear, This is an illegal relationship for your boyfriend. I know it seems unfair, but the law won't consider either of your feelings. Sadly, if you love him, let him go.

I think that if you love someone then it would be really hard to let them go. I honestly think that there is nothing wrong with it. My parents are seven years appart and have been married 17 years. If you guys are truley in love and if both of you guys are careful then I don't see a problem. I know it is illegal but so is texting and driving and people do that everyday. so good luck!

i agree verry much with rob ... I think he is a lil too old 4 u ...

Who's idea was this anyways? When a guy really loves you he'll take it slow. When he doesn't love you he'll take it fast. Don't have sex ! I'm 14 too your going to regret it watch!

i say its up to u im 14 and everyone treats us like lil kids I think that u should follow ur heart and do what u want wish the lore would let us

I don't have one. Why should my opinion on someone else's sex life even be slightly relevant? As long as you're enjoying yourselves, I say knock yourselves out. Be careful to be at least a little bit discrete though, because if he is caught having sex with you, he will be put in Jail, and branded as a paedophile rapist, and sex offender for the rest of his life. And that wouldn't be right at all.

My opinion is irrelevant. I will input it, but its not about what other people think, well in this case it is considering its illegal. You shouldn't be having sex until your at least 16 of which is the legal age. My sister is 14 (almost 15) and going out with someone who recently turned 17. They don't have sex yet, and aren't near that period just yet. Just as you shouldn't be. But like I said, my input is irrelevant.

Hey I'm olivia, and my opinion is it's illegal. I honestly don't agree with your relationship.. sorry.

it's illegal, he's a pedo, he might be playing you to get some young tang.
REALITY CHECK.
plus most girls your age say the exact same thing and it ends in disaster.
Better end it before you get knocked up.

Hi I'm ,Nadia and you know what I am in the exact same position I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 18 too. He also asked me to marry him when I'm old enough, my mom knows about it too... Yes we did it before and we are very carefull about it... We talked about the consequenses together and we know it is illegal but if you look around everyone is doing it anyway, I'm not saying do it just because everyone else is don't get me wrong! But love has no limits in our minds, every girl wants to find her true love and when she thinks she found it, be honest there's no way you'll let it go just because someone commented their opinion about it... We all have our rights about having an opinion... So if you really love him and you are sure about it then, good luck for you 2... You will know what to do just be carefull and save... :) hope I helped a little... :)*

I am in the same place there Im 14 but much more mature. I feel like I should be 17 I am a freshman and I will be graduating next year because I am in advanced classes;have been since 6 grade. I might be pregnant and if I am I don't want him to get in trouble with the law. So If I am I am gonna try to hide it untill I move in with him this Summer. I'll be 15 by the time I would have my baby

"Love is Love",you will figure it out is it right or wrong.And have you been having sexual intercoursies with each other?

well I think it's okay that you guys are dating age doesn't matter does it? but I don''t think he should sleep with you yet :/ this guy really does love you because his up for serious jail time if anyone knew about you guys.

Okay I know you probably DONT agree with meh. But honey.. im a 14 year old girl who doesn't know who you are.. and Honestly if I didn't care about you getting hurt I wouldn't be answering this question. I am 14 and my EX was 22.. Ik its a bigger diffrence by 4 years but I had sex with him. Guess where it got me? We used protection. the condom broke. And now I have a baby.. And guess what? The father? Oh he moved to canada When I told him. So stop. dont get you're self into something you CAN'T get out of.
Hope I helped :/
~You friend Jasmyn

i am 15 and I am dating a 20 yr old and we have sex so I dont think anything is wrong with it:)

thot.

I know what you mean I'm about to get married and 4 years ago my partner and I were in the same situation. It is against the law to have sex until you are 16 (during our relationship we didn't have sex) so I would suggest not having sex with him. And about your love you are a minor meaning you are under 18. There is a law that says someone older then 18 and someone younger can't date and if the police find out then he could be charged for rape, put on a child sex offenders list and maybe go to jail for a few months. My partner and I stopped dating a few months after he turned 18 because even the general public were judging us. Every time he took me on a date people thought we were brother and sister. I would suggest stop dating too but don't lose your relationship. Keep in contact and then when you are 18 you never know. But by that time he will be 23. I got engaged on my birthday.

Just use condoms because a pregnancy at your age would be devastating. And get him to use an antibacterial penis health creme too.. this will keep his penis extra clean and decrease the chances of him transferring nasty bacteria to you. I use one of these cremes and my girlfriend really appreciates it. You can get one online. Hope this helps and good luck.

You go girl! I know how u feel I can't wait till I'm 18 to marry the boy I love so much and there's nothing wrong with it my body is as mature as a 19 years old is and I'm only 14 so it doesn't matter

it does not surprise me at al caus im only a 9 year old male and I have a 37 year old girlfriend ho I fuck a few times a week