I'm a 15 girl, and I think I'm falling in love with my best girl friend. Help ?

She has told me that she had feelings for me. And she had a boyfriend while this is going on. We made out, and I was the one getting hurt. But now we are trying again, and she is cheating on him..again. With me...again. I know that I am so stupid for letting this happen. But I wish I could win her over. Advice?
ace27
Asked Jan 23, 2010
You guys are bisexual? Owwwkayy alrite you are supposed to say to her that break up with him then come to me got cha ? Cause you know cheating is really bad thing and u wouldnt want to the same thing. All you can do is to control ur feelings so I hope it works for you.Take care.
reginash_
Answered Jan 24, 2010
i had a similar problem when i was younger however it was with different sexes so it may be a tad different. I sorry for using this term but you have to man up in a sense and tell her how you are feeling about this situation which is not an easy thing to do. She is in the wrong here not you unless you let it to continue. you don't want to just try and win her over because it may cause her to cheat on you with this guy in the future. try writing what you want to say down and go over it a couple of times that always helps me in complicated emotional situation
just remember she is probably just as confused so be gental and try not to get to frustrated .. hope i helped a little
Cii1190
Answered Jan 25, 2010
Edited Jan 25, 2010
No matter what dont cheat even if its with a person you love so much, NEVER CHEAT. If she wants to be with you then she needs to break up with her boyfriend and if she says no then ur only getting urself a much bigger hurt then u were before. I personally think that if she really liked you then she wouldnt be having this whole 3rd person relationship in other words if she does break up with him then you know its meant to be.
ShadowMylan
Answered Feb 27, 2010

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