Men: would you date a woman with a criminal record?

Ladies - please answer too!!

I was recently found guilty of like 5 charges - it was a domestic issue with my partner who's charges were dismissed because I didn't show up in court. I caught him cheating on me and things hit the fan...

Would a guy date me? I still have my job (I work as a legal secretary and my boss came to court to stand beside me as a valuable employee), I am smart - book smart not relationship smart, beautiful, confident - lol, have a great body everything except this garbage.

When is the right time to bring something like this up while I am dating? I feel as if I am doomed from men for eternity and should become a modern spinster (cats and everything).

Asked Jan 14, 2010

Oh my!!!

Well you certainly made me feel better!!! I dunno what he was... I'm 30, he's 40, I thought we were ready to settle down... we both had issues from our past and I am too forgiving, and too understanding and too willing to make excuses for him.

Maybe we should meet!! Where do you live?? I live in Mississauga....
Ausha Jan 18, 2010
For me, it depends on the charges. Something like parking tickets, I would totally date a woman. Your case however, you sound like you're surrounded by WAYYY too much drama, and I try to avoid drama.
Answered Jan 14, 2010
Your not doomed. You see, your just dating the wrong type of guy. The world is a big place and there are two sides to the coin, yet there are many different types of coins. Do you like a bad boy? or mr. seduction? the pussy boy? or the nerd? The four are completly different types of guys and there are hundreds more types. And it sounds to me you were dating a "tryhard" bad boy that dosent really know how to be one in the first place (he probably thinks you have to actually be "bad bad" to your lady) lol. biiiiiiiiig mistake! as we can now see.

Bring it up when ever you feel comfortable baby because we, I, would not give a shit if your so smart, nice, sexy and hot. Your persona will bring out the real you to a potential partner when dating And if you told me I wouldnt really blame you if the x cheated on you. You were just holding up your dignity and self respect. i'd be really pissed if my girl cheated on me... Who wouldnt?

P.S what's going on over there? I think I should come over and date some of you babes because it seems you arent being treated very well.
Answered Jan 17, 2010
Edited Jan 17, 2010
wait till your married then birng it up thats what i would do
Answered Jan 19, 2010
it should not make a difference so if you are dating a real man tell him up front or after a few dates and he should not care because its in the past. or if you are local maybe we can talk.
Answered Mar 16, 2010
I have a felony but that is not the first thing I talk about when I meet some one new......
Answered Mar 16, 2010
if ur personality attracts me and u physical appearance and ur a female I would date u
Answered Mar 16, 2010

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