What do u do when a friend loves a man but he always hits her but she needs him she wont listen 2 me

I was like your friend. I lived with someone like that for 12years. I could NOT see what my friends were trying to tell me. (I LOVED HIM). Saying that now gives Me have a bad taste in my mouth. I was Pathetic for this man.
One day a friend of mine took me to Al-Alon. It is NOT just for Women of Alcoholics or Drug addicts. It's for Women who need help...saving themselves.
I thought my friend was crazy and I did NOT want to go. But, I did.
I met Women Like myself. Who put up with so much from their Man. I was NOT alone. I kept going back.
I eventually left my ole Man...and have NEVER been happier. I will NEVER tolerate that behavior from ANYBODY ever again.

The Women in those rooms...SAVED MY LIFE....

Find a meeting in your area...and take her. Just tell her to sit there and listen.
It's a start. and Good Luck !!!!

that don't really works all the time. all she can do is pray and be there for her. she will come around. she knows that when her man is hitting on her is wrong, but love is a powerful feeling, very powerful. she will come out the hold he got her in. only one person that can help her is GOD.

I am so sick of all the religious people here. I'm not saying god doesn't exist (though I am personally Atheist), but "god" isn't the one be-all-end-all solution to everything. Your comment really infuriates me because you're practically saying, "No, no matter what you do, it won't help. Just let god sort them all out." And that's just absolute BULL!

I agree with Oni_Kami. God isn't going to help you in everything. I am an agnostic and I believe in one but he is just a spiritual being that humans are trying to live up to

Good call. This is some of the best advice I've seen around here.

this is probably the best answer i've seen

Please don't advise people to commit crimes.

yeah seriously dude violence isnt the answer. if you do that crap then you're about as bad as the abuser.