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ok another problem. I work with a girl I like a lot. we see each other at work and that's practically all. We don't leave in the same town, we rarely work same shifts. so:
1. how to spend more time with her
2. how to tell her I like her (we are co workers but I don't know much about her private life as I know her for only about 3 months)
3. Is it better for me to wait awhile and to know her better and tell her I like her or tell her that right away?
4. if she rejects me, how will we be able to work together?
1. how to spend more time with her
2. how to tell her I like her (we are co workers but I don't know much about her private life as I know her for only about 3 months)
3. Is it better for me to wait awhile and to know her better and tell her I like her or tell her that right away?
4. if she rejects me, how will we be able to work together?
kledoo May 10, 2010
kledoo, please post your own questions separately, don't post in other peoples questions like that. It'd be one thing if you wanted to know how to tella girl you like her, but you're asking 3 other questions there, thus making it your own separate question, and should be posted separately. Thank you.
Oni_Kami May 10, 2010
sorry new to this :)
vkmehta Sep 04, 2010
Most of the advice on here is bad, mate, and it's mostly because it is from girls who don't know what they want. Here's the secret: girls like fun, confident, positive men.
So, there are a few important things to do:
*Smile
*Tease her
*Touch her playfully (nudge her, smile, and tell her not to give you trouble, for example)
*Ping her, which means interacting briefly, then leaving and talking to other people, etc. You spend the whole day together. Don't smother her. Just be sporadically fun.
If she starts to laugh at shit you say, touch her hair, glance at your mouth, and touch you, she likes you. Then, TELL her to come hang out like it's no big deal. And don't make it a big deal. Say, "Hey I'm grabbing a drink after work; come with." If you're unsure, make it a work function and invite everyone. When you have her out of the work setting (and mindset), then you can escalate. G'luck!
So, there are a few important things to do:
*Smile
*Tease her
*Touch her playfully (nudge her, smile, and tell her not to give you trouble, for example)
*Ping her, which means interacting briefly, then leaving and talking to other people, etc. You spend the whole day together. Don't smother her. Just be sporadically fun.
If she starts to laugh at shit you say, touch her hair, glance at your mouth, and touch you, she likes you. Then, TELL her to come hang out like it's no big deal. And don't make it a big deal. Say, "Hey I'm grabbing a drink after work; come with." If you're unsure, make it a work function and invite everyone. When you have her out of the work setting (and mindset), then you can escalate. G'luck!
soupertramp Oct 08, 2010
After asking a girl out she said "I WILL TELL ON MONDAY".What to do.im in school.im only ten so nothing dramatic like the guy above me.
roadrage Mar 25, 2011