My mother has become mentally sick in the past couple months and it breaks my heart as she has changed into a complteley different person these past few weeks. I live in another country and my work doesn't give me time off. She isn't eating or drinking and hardly speaks to me. When I try and talk to her over the phone she just speaks for maybe a few minutes and tells me not to worry about her. If anything ever happened to her I think I would honestly not be able to handle the pain and stress. She is my best friend and I love her more then anything. I am now hardly eating,speaking to my friends or doing anything except laying in bed. I feel like its my fault she got worse when I went away and I wasn't there like she was there for me for 28 years when I needed her. Should I quit my job and go help her? I feel beyond guilty doing things in my everyday life because she cant anymore so I try not to enjoy myself and not go to work. I cant cope with her not being herself and I ask myself why and blame myself. Im 13 hour plane ride away from home and it eats me alive knowing she might pass before I see her. Please help !!!