Am I making the right decision about a guy that I've never met before?

So about three years ago I met this guy online and we hit it off pretty quickly. We were both only 17-18 at the time. He lives in a different state so our only communication was through texting and late night phone calls. We truly had a connection that we've never had with someone before. It lasted about a year & life kind of got in the way so we stop talking. Also he just disappeared out of no where. Being a girl I am, I did some digging & found out that he got locked up. I didn't think much of it because we never had closure in our so call relationship. We weren't dating but we loved each other's company over the phone. Like it was good to have someone to talk to. Even if it meant it was long distance. I went on with life of course but I still thought about him too & wonder how he was doing. Fast forward three years later, present time, I get a call & text saying that this person wanted to talk to me. I honestly didn't know what or how to feel. The person texting for him said that he wanted to talk to me & if it was okay if he called again later that day. So they call me & a lady put our phone lines together & it was him. I was so shocked & had a million questions running through my head. But I was speechless. He ask me how I was doing & we caught up a bit. He told me that ever since we stopped talking, he got locked up. He couldn't say what he did over the phone but it's pretty clear that he's in jail. So those past years, he was in jail. & he still is.. our calls only lasted 18minutes because that's the limit. He asks me if it's okay if he calls me sometimes & im honestly a little hesitant. I'm not sure what I'm doing right now. So far we've only talked on the phone twice. & talking to him just made me remember all those good times we use to talk about. He wants to write me but I'm hesitant about giving my address. I haven't told him why yet but I'm going to be honest with him on the next phone call. Because even before, our phone conversations were always the truth, no BS or holding stuff inside. Talking to him made me miss what we had back then. But am I making the right decision on having him back in my life? Especially if he's calling from jail. I'm so confused on what to do. I don't want to put myself or anyone else's life in danger. Not saying that he's a dangerous guy because I don't even know how he ended up getting locked up. I know him but it's been years since we last talk & I haven't even met him before. Before he always said he wanted to come down here to meet me & visit my state. Now that we're communicating again, he's even more eager to come down & see me. His next parole or hearing I believe is in 8 months. I don't have much details on that yet but I'm sure he's coming close to getting out. Like I'm not going to lie, I kind of like this. I do miss him & I do want to keep talking to him. I just hope I'm making the right decision..
dootybooty
Asked Jul 12, 2017

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Answered Jul 12, 2017

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