we have been together 8mths married on 6mths thats 240days and we have actually seen each other 83 of them and 7 of those we were able to have sex . She feels that she tried to find the feeling but cant . I said we havent spent enough time trying , she says I dont know what I want ? ,I said how could you weve only seen each other this much cause of your problems at home we live 114 miles apart and her 14 yr old daughter is completely a hand full with any man being with her mom , and thats what has limited our time together