Why don't people appreciate my offers of contribution?

when I offer to help them they rarely accept my offer unless its something they want for themselves its not something I want. If they accused me of being selfish in the past if I offer something to them they don't want it. When people say I'm mean if I tried to be extra nice they don't like it and said I'm being manipulative. Yet if other people offer to help them they like it. Yet they like/want to help me sometimes if they like me. If I do what they want for me.
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Asked Jun 17, 2015
Edited Jun 17, 2015

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