Should I do what makes me happy or what makes others' lives easier?

So I have to decide what high school to go to. My first choice is a school with an advanced math and science program (which I love to do.) I want to go there. It's a little expensive and a little far, but I'd study my passion and the teachers were extremely nice! The option my family and friends want for me is a school where they train you to be secretaries and nuns beat your knuckles. I visited that school for one day and I HATED EVERY SECOND I WAS THERE. The teachers were rude, the students looked sad, there was no learning (only paper work to "prepare you and give job experience") and it was generally not fun. However, everyone I know wants me to go there to save money and time. My parents want me to go there so that I could walk there since its closer than my first choice, and because the tuition is incredibly low. My friends want me to go there because they are going there. But I know I would be miserable there. I wouldn't mind going to a school without them honestly. And my first choice said they would love to have me there and offered a summer course. So do I choose the school I would be happy in and make it hard for my parents whom I love, or suck it up and be miserable so their lives aren't so hard?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Sep 13, 2014
Edited Sep 13, 2014
What is best for you is the first school mentioned, the happy one. Although its not what others wanted, its best for you. This is your life, not theirs, ultimately you have the choice.
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Answered Sep 13, 2014
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Answered Jul 10, 2018
You should always do what makes you happy but be careful that you don't hurt other by keeping yourself happy.
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