Problem speaking english with crush

So I have been trying to talk to this girl but I get nervious and my English is not good,i dont have a problem talking To girls with my native language but with English I do have problems.
She is always quiet,rarely she smiles but she is beautiful ,not many people talk To her,but when I try to talk to her I blow it,i have been trying to talk to her only about 3 days,i made her smile a couple of times on the second day but in the 3rd day she only gave me short answers and I got even more nervious when I asked her if she normally goes out and she said that she didnt liked to go out that she would preffered to stay at home,and she asked me why that question and I didnt knew what to respond and I told her that I needed To go and I left
,we dont know each other very well.,how should I talk to her so she can open?and the conversation can be fluent?she got my atention with I first saw her,we have made eye contact but we never smile,i am really in To her,BUT MY ENGLISH I want to ask her out but dont know when but first I have To ask her for something so we could comunicate when school ends ,today I am still thinking should I give it another try or leave it? School ends in 5 days(ttomorrow,and monday to Thursday next week)..i am a normal looking guy 2 girls are in To me right now but I am not into them I am into this quiet girl

My problem is that I dont know the creepy things in english ,because I say something that is normal to me but in english It sounds creepy they have told me other people)
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peterov
Asked Jul 02, 2014
Actually, broadening/improving one's language skills is a very broad concept, it should be done in more than one ways at the same time which is highly recommended. One can NOT become better ONLY in one area, say, speaking, one MUST improve skills in ALL dimensions of the language!

Learning language well requires being as active as possible and making the learning as FUN for oneself as possible. Taking lessons is always important, but equally important are these:

1) Listen/watch: Keep listening to internet radio stations like BBC, watch TV shows in English (use only subtitles, NOT voice dubbing in case you are not a native English speaker!), etc.

2) Write/communicate: Try to find discussion forums from the web about things that you find interesting and FUN (music/various artists, hobbies, etc.) and start communicating there with other people using only English. Start using instant messaging systems in case you find some new friends or start emailing them. Please do NOT be afraid of making mistakes or hesitating, because even native speakers do make mistakes and do hesitate at times! The more you enjoy communicating, the better!

3) Buy yourself a proper dictionary, and each time when you see a strange word that you do not understand, look it up. Putting words into their CONTEXT is one of the best ways to broaden one's vocabulary and grammar knowledge, the more you read and write the better. Memorising is NOT the best way to go with learning vocabulary, grammar or any other language areas! For idioms, you should buy an all-English dictionary which explains the words in English and shows you examples of how to use the words.

The main point in ANY language learning is to make it as fun as possible for yourself. Try to find topics that INTEREST you, read online newspapers (Times, Guardian, Independent...), listen to BBC/NBC and other radio stations online, if you find a discussion forum for e.g. your favourite hobby or your idols in music do participate there, etc. The key word here is CONTEXT, which means that it is easier to learn new words and their usage as well as grammar when you use/see them in their real CONTEXT. The more you see and hear the new words in their context and the more you use them in your speech & writing, the easier it becomes to remember their meanings and correct spelling. Do NOT be afraid of making mistakes though, because even native speakers do make mistakes and do hesitate at times!

I'm sorry there is NO EASY WAY out with this, one really must develop language skills in ALL these language "levels" or dimensions in order to reach better language skills!!

Last but not least: NEVER EVER use ANY online translators, they are nothing but utter rubbish!! English is practically EVERYWHERE in the online world these days, you just have to use your imagination to find it! Learning pace is always personal, it takes the time it takes so there is no reason to hurry it up too much. If you do, you will not learn so well. Also, please learn the basics of the standard English first before advancing to finer details like dialects/accents. A word of warning though: Do stay well away from overrated, overpriced and overhyped language "gimmicks" such as Rosetta Stone, they really are NOT worth for checking out!

Good luck!
Vishal1986
Answered Jul 05, 2014
If you are facing problem while speaking English then join spoken English class where you will find different ways to learn English. You may join Svarna Training Institute to make your English speaking professional and error free.
Nafisah
Answered May 22, 2015

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