Did she like me or.?

Okay, got quite a bit here to share so please bear with me (might not be much now that think about it). Any-who, this past school year was like any other for me (note I'm still in high school just finished my junior year) up until this girl showed up in my physics class mid-year. I've known her since middle school though we've never really actually spoken to each other. This year however we hit it off quite well with the group that we had in the class and we ended up talking quite a bit in our other classes as well.

Now I classify myself as an introvert since I'm not much of a talker and tend to be quite all the time all the while having the most serious face in the world, you know it's been the norm for me to just hang back and see the world do it's wonders. On the other hand this girl is the complete opposite of me and such. I've never been a huger up until the end of the school year that is. You see this girl had this thing where she felt the need to hug me all the time. At first it was the most annoying thing ever but then after a while I got used to it and didn't mind it as much. I even began to initiate hugs with other people (which was something I never did before).

Anyways she also had this inside joke type of thing with this other friend of mine where they would talk about things like, "oh there's my future wife," or something like that. Though it was always hinted at towards me and I put the thing off at the time thinking I was just imagining things or that it was all just a joke. Right well that was all changed when this one day in our English class we were having a conversation about a friend of ours and how they mentioned them being a porn star (it was honestly hilarious) and then out of the blue she blurts out, "Yeah I can't picture her having sex, but I can picture you." And at the time I was listening to my music in one ear and listening to her speak so I wasn't sure if I had caught that right and so I asked her what she had said. She immediately tried to change the subject saying it was nothing but an inside joke with the other friend. I put it off at that point and didn't press on the subject since it had made things a bit awkward.

Weeks go by since that incident and the school year was nearly over and that literally stayed on my mind but I did nothing about it. So for the last few weeks of school our little group of ours were discussing about whether or not we'd miss the hell hole we call school they all answered saying yes and blah blah. I didn't answer so they had looked at me expectantly waiting to see what mean thing I had to say I ended up saying that I wouldn't miss any of them (as a joke clearly) and one of them brings up saying that I should write them these letters for the end of the year saying what I thought about 'em (they never expected for me to do it but in the end I did). Oh boy this is long.

Right well the girl of this whole story wanted me to write in her yearbook in case she ended up not returning the following year and I was always horrible with writing in yearbooks usually just write my name and the standard saying "have a great summer" but she was having none of that. She wanted something deep and meaningful. So I ended up writing her that letter I promised everyone only hers was a bit early. I surprised her with it and she was shocked considering I was never one to open up my feelings. The letter wasn't one stating anything about my current feelings as of now but it was thank you for her for teaching me to be a bit more open and a bit more happier in life. She cried and smiled when she read it and it felt good.

She did end up writing one back to me (if you'd like a glimpse of it let me know).

Now down to the point of all this whole mess on the last week of school the incident from before was still on my mind so I had to mention it to someone and I did. I told it to one of our friends in that tight nit group who can possibly share what she thought about it. She ended up telling me that she thinks that the girl had a crush or thing for me. Of course I denied it (more than once that week). But she mentioned so many signs /things that made it seem that way. I didn't believe it so we asked another friend from the same group the next day and then BAM! She tells me the exact same thing.

It bothered me that whole week and I was a bit off whenever I was around her (she took notice of it too). Things that my friends mentioned were how she always had the need to hug me, how she always spoke about, and how she never did the things she'd do to them but only with me. I had always thought that she was just being a friend but then it all got into my head how she'd have these random moments of touching me or always wanting me to sit next to her in class. Who knows I could have just taken the whole thing out of context.

In the end though I never really found out because she was hurting at the time and I was more worried about that. She always made it so clear how she liked this one guy so that would always prove to me that none of the ideas we had were real. All through that whole week though I ended up coming up with the realization that I had these feelings for her all year long and just then did I figure them out openly.

Upon realizing it I told a friend and they'd tell me to go for it but obviously I didn't. I kept it hidden inside for the last few days and tried my best to not mess anything up (I didn't). I've found myself replaying things that happened throughout the school year trying to find anything that could possibly prove that my friends were right. But I find it a bit late now though. Summer vacation is on and I don't really talk to her.

I just need other people's input on this. Thoughts, advice, anything! I don't care if they're comments about me just give me something.
Mayhem
Asked Jul 01, 2014
maybe she likes you more than other friends and maybe you're right that she is just trying to be friendly. But if you told two of your friends evrything then I suggest this should rather be told to the right girl you think about all time.. If she is really a nice friend then definitely she won't get pissed at all. And finally you ll get to know if she was into you or no. Just ask her if this was really the case or you were just getting virtual thoughts. And if she was nt into you , doesn't matter anyway because you ll still remain friends if she is a nice friend. Trust me nothing will get up or down just ask her about your confusion as a consult! Btw I wanted to ask you if you were into girls since before you met her or after you got to get hints that she likes you, you're getting into ?
Girl_57 Jul 02, 2014
Maybe she likes you more than other friends and maybe you're right that she is just trying to be friendly. But if you told two of your friends evrything then I suggest this should rather be told to the right girl you think about all time.. If she is really a nice friend then definitely she won't get pissed at all. And finally you ll get to know if she was into you or no. Just ask her if this was really the case or you were just getting virtual thoughts. And if she was nt into you , doesn't matter anyway because you ll still remain friends if she is a nice friend. Trust me nothing will get up or down just ask her about your confusion as a consult!
Girl_57
Answered Jul 02, 2014

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