How to talk to guys to make them like you and think you're cool?

So I have always had problems talking to guys. I don't know why I'm so anxious to talk to them. I don't know what to talk to them about and I feel like if I'm interested in getting to know a guy and I start talking, they aren't interested in me and won't care. I'm a 13 year old girl and I really need some advice because I want to know what I can do to be the best at relationships.
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jun 27, 2014
I totally understand your dilemma. I'm as socially awkward as it gets. I had extreme trouble making conversation, and not only with boys, but I did become more nervous with boys than with girls. I never found a way to talk to boys. I even ruined a relationship due to my lack of openness. Another relationship began because of my mysterious conversations. But my husband, he loved my awkwardness, coaxed me right out of my shell! That's how I knew he was the one for me! You don't have to change yourself, and sometimes, you just have to love yourself the way you are, and realize that there is a guy our there who will love you for all of your quirky little flaws.
Answered Jul 22, 2014

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