I'm 16 and have wanted a baby for 10 years what should I do?

i have wanted a baby since I was 6 years old. I asked my mum for one and she thought I wanted a toy doll and was surprised when I say no a real one. I have tried to ignore it or think aboout something else but it has got stronger over the years. I know all the in's and out's of havig and raising a child as I grew up round them. I would love it if someone could give me some advice on what to do. thanks to anybody who helps.
babymadmuch
Asked May 05, 2014
A lot of people want a baby but remember the responsibility it is if you have a child right now who's gonna help you support it? Your 16 and still in school don't you want your first child to grow up in a happy home were he or she can go to school and come home to a nice warm meal? Also babys grow up fast! First they are newborns the next second there begging you for a toy! If you 16 you are going to have to deal with criticism on you being pregnant :( wait till you can send your kid to a good school and have enough money for a good home ect. Just wait the day will come :D you can get married and have some babys of your own if you want you can start a babysitting thing and take care of babys but I think your too young I mean you still have time to do what you want with your life if you just go hook up with a guy and get pregnant the guy might not help you with the baby witch would you rather have a happy faimily or being a single mother still going to high school with barley enough money for food just wait you'll grow up soon!!!!!!!
Ruby_love
Answered May 05, 2014
thanks. I understand where you are coming from. I have grew up around kids my whole life I babysit all the time, I go to college and study childcare. I have been prepared for a child my whole life. As for doing what I wwant with my life this is what I want to be honest it has alwayys been what I wanted. I know I wouldn't do anything about it yet but the need just keeps on getting stronger and I dont know what to do about it.
It's okay I'm sure when you grow up you will have a baby. :) in the mean time prepare! :D I'm sure your child will grow up happy and successful if you prepare and care for the child right :) and just think in the future all that tension of wanting the child will be relived and you'll have one your very own kid :)
I mean, I would love a kid as well, but there is a ginormous responsibility in this. You are 16 and probs still in high school. I mean how hard is it to get yourself ready? Imagine you and a baby. And what if the dad doesnt stay? Thats how it is at this age.
Just I would recommend no ok
imawalrus
Answered May 06, 2014
fuck a whole bunch of niggas
hoopMcdoop
Answered May 21, 2014

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