How can I help my friend but also myself?

ok so me and my best friend since 4th grade were both going to Murray state in the fall, this week his mom had an aneurism and I heard him say he was going to wait a year. I know he wants to do what his mom wants him to do I just dont know how to help him realize this. ever since that ive been having second thoughts like if im really ready for college or if im going because I want to or because its whats expected from me and I really dont want to tell my parents that because they will get mad and tell me im being stupid, so what should I do?
Asked May 04, 2014

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