my boyfriend left me for something I didnt do!?Please help me with advise. 1 week ago my boyfriend went on a coke binge which he rarely does but he did and went through my old fb nessages. He some somethings that made him wonder, I wrote to a guy friend please help me with money im in a hole and ill even sleep with you. It was stupid but I never did it. And it was from years ago..Anyways he decided I was a prostitute/ whore and started searching my namr in porn and found videos of women labeled with my first name and similar bodies masterbating. He was convinced they were all me! One wore a heart necklace similar to the one he got me and thinks its me! Ive asked him to send me videos . Some he has some he hasnt and ive traced eacb one and they come from south america! He wony listen to me. He is convinced they are me. I am so hurt. At first I thought it was paranoia from coke but its been almost 2 weeks! I cry every night bc he left me over this. He told me before he left that he wants to marry me and he will.. if I admit its me. I didnt because its not. He then called me a lieing whore and cut off all contact and disappeared... im so hurt sad.. I feel so betrayed. What should I do?
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He's not right for you. Let him go, I know it hurts but you deserve more. Find someone that'll truly love you. He doubts you and always will...that sounds cold but its the truth. A relationship can't work without trust. Please find the courage to let go, keep yourself busy with friends and family and I promise the right guy will step in.
scoobs Jun 10, 2014