DVR security remote acesss via internet or mobile phone

I cannot figure out how to type the Ip address and the port number to access my DVR remotely I downloaded activex an still cannot get to the log in part of my cameras I can view them in my own network with a different IP not the one belonging to the router what am I missing. Also Asee is the program I put on the mobile phone but all it does is buffer when trying to connect with no response it is a android.
Asked Mar 17, 2014

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