Should I have sex? I'm 12

I'm 12 my bf is 12
My mom tells me that I shouldn't have sex till I'm married
I think it's kinda lame to, but I still am not sure
My bf says that it's lame and he asked "you not gonna wait till marriage are you?" I said no, but still, not sure. He wasn't suggesting we do it before marriage, and he made it pretty clear earlier that he never wants unprotected sex. He also said he wouldn't with me anytime soon, just cuz it's akward and we aren't ready yet. I think I love him. I have had my period, so if we do ever have sex, there is a chance I could get pregnant. I will NEVER let him pressure me to do it wen I don't wanna. If, one day, I feel ready, should I?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Feb 04, 2014
Even when you don't have your pried you can still get pregnant!!! You don't have to wait till marriage but wait till your older. Its up to you when you have sex and if you want to do it you probably will but your going to regret it. Your going to wish you waited until your older. And if anyone found out what you did they would start calling you a lot of horrible names. Its fine to date but just try to wait till your older for sex!!!!
Answered Feb 11, 2014
Omg noooo ur way too young fair enough if you was with your boyfriend for over a year but please don't u will regret it wait til your settled with someone or wait til you feel like your ready it shouldn't be a question then . If you think you love him he shouldn't be pushing you into it he should be respectful and at 12 he should be thinking about xbox not sex :/,,
Answered Feb 11, 2014
Thats not true! Lots of guys at the age of 12 think about sex all the fucking time! Just ask, like, everyone at every middle school on this fucking earth. Unless they're video game geeks. then they'll choose their xbox lol
Not sex! If you want to do something like that just see each other like naked but don't do anything you will regret! I'm 12 and I want to have it but I know I won't! I'm not ruining my life! So please don't just do something else like hang out, kiss, show each other your parts, stuff like that not sex! Sorry!
Answered Feb 13, 2014
Wait untill you get into high school. Girls will make a big deal about it and it could potentially cause some problems. If you do do it, keep it on the dl and always wear protection.
Answered Feb 04, 2014
Don't do it until you BOTH feel totally ready. I agree it's really lame not to have sex until you're married, but don't do it until you both feel ready. I would suggest waiting until you're at least 14 or 15, but if you feel ready, go ahead. Hope I helped :)
Answered Feb 11, 2014
No please wait until you feel completely ready. You'll regret it, I promise. It's best to find someone you're sure you're in love with once you mature some more. I know you may not like this answer but it's the truth. I thought the same thing when I was you're age but waited till I was 14 and I don't even think I was fully ready then.
Answered Feb 11, 2014
Answered Feb 11, 2014
Simple Answer. NO
Answered Feb 12, 2014
dude.. I'm 14 turning 15 and not a virgin because I was taken advantage of over a year ago... DON'T DO IT... Trust me, you will regret it.
Answered Feb 25, 2015
Please don't u want to wait till u find that special person. If that still does not convince u look at how painful it would be.
Answered Mar 24, 2015
You are wayy to young to even think about having sex.. You will know when you are ready and realistically it may not be with that guy so I wouldnt make a mistake
Answered Mar 24, 2015
u guys are 12!!!!! seriously, when I was 12 only just found out what sex was and I never thought about doing it. I only got my first bf at 13yrs and even yrs after that I would never consider having sex! u are way to young and I think u should wait until your older
Answered Mar 25, 2015
I'm 12 too. People say that your too young but really it's what you think you should do. Sometimes people think that once they get past the clothes they can hit you and quit you so if you love your boyfriend and this is the way you want to show it then no one can stop you but if you feel even the littlest bit uneasy about it you know your not ready. I wouldn't because I don't feel right when I know my relationship would never last til marriage but go with what you think but talk about it with your bf and see why he wants to
Answered Apr 17, 2015

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