Why does She keeps cheating is their something am doing wrong

Well me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year and we are still young am 16 and she 20 and I don't know what am doing wrong she cheats all the time and when I ask her why she does it she says it's just sex it's nothing to her and that she loves me and that she's just got a high sex drive and as am so young she doesn't want me to have sex all the time it's very strange and I don't know what to do I love this girl and do anything for her but she keeps cheating and other than that the relationship is brill
Am also a girl
Jessie101
Asked Sep 17, 2013
Edited Sep 17, 2013
maybe she feels guilty to keep asking you since your still pretty young , if anything bothers you , you should be honest and tell her . communication is the key in relationships ! good luck x
shygirl3
Answered Sep 19, 2013
Yeah maybe and thank you babe x
I agree with this over the other answers - based on what you said, there's not enough information to totally and completely know the situation. I think you should talk it over with the person and say that you feel negatively about what she does and that you and her need to work together to find out how this is really going to work out. I can't tell you if she's cheating because she really does have a really high sex drive or if she just wants to cheat on you because she can, frankly because I don't know her and I don't know how she thinks. Talk it over with her and tell her how you feel.
Well I know from experience that she just wants what's best for you. Because your of a young age she doesn't want to ask you for sex all the time. I know it is wrong. But you still have the rest of your life for sex. She may also feel that she is to old for you and may not feel comfortable have sex with someone 4 years younger. It has happened to me in two relationships I dated an 18 year old girl when I was 13 and she cheated a lot to because she felt that I was to young to understand sex. I just did spontaneous things to make myself seem older in her eyes.
If you ever need help or wanna talk I'm here. (I'm about to marry someone who is 4 years older and I'm only 18) I understand
jiyong
Answered Sep 23, 2013
Thanks for the help babe and hope you have a nice wedding x
Thanks sweetie just remember your not doing anything wrong
jiyong Nov 04, 2013
This is a clear sign that the two of you aren't compatible enough to be together. Your age difference is clearly a factor (and may be illegal where you live -- you should check).

This relationship isn't going to work... and the longer you put off the breakup, the more it's going to hurt you. She's not the right girl for you.
skyDancer
Answered Sep 23, 2013
So do you think I should end it or see how it goes in time
this is wrong and not true I have a girlfriend who is 5 yrs older than me and cheats on me for the same reason but it for the best because im still so young she just loves you and cares about you and your still able to pull it around just wait
Its not you hun we are only human. My concern is the sex drive she has. Shygirl3 is absolutely right without communication no issues can be resolved. I know how hard it is to just stop loving someone that takes time, fight for hers and if she can't see it then is she really worth it? It isn't my decision to answer for anyone that's the question we need to understand ourselves.
The_Stig
Answered Oct 07, 2013
Edited Oct 07, 2013
Ino we talk about it all the time I just thought because she's got this "high sex drive" shed just ask me I don't mind I love her to bits but she goes else where :/ I said to her its got to be something else than just sex cos we can do that and she's says no really don't want to be without her she's my first lesbian relationship and am glad in a way but she's also my first love and its killing me that she can do this to a person she says she loves just don't know what to do thank you for your advise x
Get rid. There is a big difference between being 16 and being 20 and it seems like you might be being used. Tell her how you feel and ask her why she sleeps around with other people. You're not having a monogamous, commit relationship if she's seeing other people.
ChoccyMonster
Answered Dec 30, 2013
So I ended it few months back and since I did that she's not going with as many people always wanting to come stop at mine when I say no were over she's rings me no stop I don't answer the she's outside my house so go chat and she's all over me saying she loves me and that's she was in the wrong and misses me loads and tells me all the time and txt me she's not been with any other girl am her only :/ she messing with my head I so want to believe she's changed but I don't think its the truth really don't know how to handle this
My dear friend, do not consider it as cheating.She wants sex which only a guy can give the pleasure.You also has liberty to do the same. You both do not appear to be lesbians.So stop negative thinking and think positive.
GIRISHJMEHTA
Answered Feb 07, 2014
The problem is not you, it's her. First of all in no world is it okay in the US for a 20 year old to be dating a 16 year old. Not that it's a huge difference in years, but at those ages you both are at very different points in your life. Your young enough to where you don't completely understand, but she should. She could give you an STD or get pregnant. Pill, condoms whatever it can still happen. It seems like you should be the adult in the situation (even though it seems to me you may already be), and dump her. I promise you, it won't be to hard once you've ripped the bandaid off. And don't let her believe that sex isn't that big of a deal. It IS a big deal. Anyone that says different is ignorant or fooling themselves.
Kad16
Answered Feb 12, 2014
only time will tell sweetie.


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LeeNotLee
Answered Feb 13, 2014
Maybe she is looking to make sure u are the right guy. :) I might do that or maybe she is not cheating she is just hanging out with other guys she met. :) If she is cheating on u break up with her. :)
jennaknight
Answered Mar 04, 2014
maybe you shouldn't be dating a 20 year old woman I accept your homosexuality but underaged dating is wrong
WaffleHunter
Answered Apr 03, 2014
I maybe wrong but I think that she might not love you as much as you love her. It has happened to me before except I am a girl he was a boy. He cheated on me and I asked him why. Though he said "I don't know. So we got back together because I think everybody needs at least a second chance. But then he cheatedon me again with the same girl. I don't know why I gave him a third chance but I did. And then he cheated on me again. So I decided to not date him again. So the thing is, if she likes you, she would have sex with you no matter how young you were. But I maybe wrong. Sorry if I didn't help:) Good luck:)
gurlygurl
Answered Apr 03, 2014
Thank you for you help gurlygurl I ended it a while ago realised she not in love with me just being a snake all tho its still hard seeing her about I've not gone back to her but it is very hard she seems to be wanting me more and more but I think this is cos you always want what you can't have I dno but so hard not to give in to her she's so seductive any advice on that bIt xx
dump her that's terrible
fabulous3057
Answered Dec 10, 2014
Yes---you aren't breaking up with her. If she cheats on you multiple times, she's probably not worth it. Sorry.... :/
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