Who controls my destiny?

Rob! I love you answer, but don't you think nothing happen in void ,there is always a reason for everything both good or bad. I also believe that it's not who we become in life but what we become. But sometimes we don't have power over what we become.

In my mind, there is little difference between "who" and "what" you are, they are just choices in the words used to describe you.

I agree, "there is always a reason for everything" but with the exception of some political, social and medical issues that restrict some people in the world, we create our own reasons with the choices we make. Even very minor choices can have a huge effect when totaled up. For example, an hour here or there playing computer games doesn't seem so bad but if you spend enough hours playing, it can ruin your hopes and dreams.