I have to make a big decision. Two guys want to be with me and I have to move to be with either one. PLEASE HELP ME CHOOSE!
Guy 1: Let's call him Joe. He and I have been off and on since 2004 and have remained friends in between. He has broken my heart several times by not being willing to commit when I have wanted him to. Now he wants to and he is really ready as we are in our late 20s. He is serious and trustworthy, but not much fun. He is a great friend but always wants to talk about deep issues and can stress me out. He is the safer choice as I know he'd never cheat or do me wrong. But I have a lot of baggage from him in the past and our personality types are very different..
Guy 2:Let's call him Pete. He and I dated when I was 20. We have amazing chemistry! Sparks galore! We just seem to "get" each other and don't have to talk much, we communicate almost energetically. Lot's of tension. He is passionate and fun but he's also very independent. He says he's ready to settle down, but I'm not sure he could for the long term, but I want to take a chance on him! He also lives in the more desireable location. the fear: he is a free spirit who has been known to love them and leave them, though he swears it is different with me and I'm the only one he loves like this.
I HAVE TO PICK ONE and SOON! ADVICE? who would you choose?
Guy 1: Let's call him Joe. He and I have been off and on since 2004 and have remained friends in between. He has broken my heart several times by not being willing to commit when I have wanted him to. Now he wants to and he is really ready as we are in our late 20s. He is serious and trustworthy, but not much fun. He is a great friend but always wants to talk about deep issues and can stress me out. He is the safer choice as I know he'd never cheat or do me wrong. But I have a lot of baggage from him in the past and our personality types are very different..
Guy 2:Let's call him Pete. He and I dated when I was 20. We have amazing chemistry! Sparks galore! We just seem to "get" each other and don't have to talk much, we communicate almost energetically. Lot's of tension. He is passionate and fun but he's also very independent. He says he's ready to settle down, but I'm not sure he could for the long term, but I want to take a chance on him! He also lives in the more desireable location. the fear: he is a free spirit who has been known to love them and leave them, though he swears it is different with me and I'm the only one he loves like this.
I HAVE TO PICK ONE and SOON! ADVICE? who would you choose?
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