How can I test if I have the wrong gender

i think I mite have more guy then girl in me iv been a tomboy all my life and in my mind only ever thort of my self as I guy I am also atracted to girl and when I sit next to one I start to swet my bff is a girl I dont fanzzy her but when ever she sits on my lap for a joke it feel so right but I cant sit in someones lap or let someone give my a piggy back it has to be me doing the work I am quite shy around grils I know and hang around with them to be normal I have a bunch of guy freinds aswell as have a lot of all boy class mates coz of my spelling and reading problems im not worred if I am les or bi just would like to hear some opinyons I wont say anymore becoue it can go on forever and sorry for my spelling thank you

There is no test for right or wrong gender. You are the gender you were meant to be.. If you are having these feelings then you probably are a lesbian. Do you have any feelings for men? If you do you could be bi sexual. I am a girl, and I've always been straight, no doubt about it. So it's hard for me to understand exactly how you feel. But I have friends that are and the signs are to hard to read. Some girls have the same feelings you do though, then experiment and decide they are straight.

I don't know that anybody can be the "wrong" gender. We are who we are. You might be able to have your testosterone and estrogen levels checked to see if there is anything unusual in your body chemistry. If that is the case, most often there are physical symptoms like unusual hair growth for example.

If no such symptoms exist, I would consider this: We all have beliefs about ourselves that are formed in early childhood about who we are. As we grow up we follow that pattern and become what we believe about ourselves. Traits like being athletic, being smart in school, being a tough guy etc. all begin with beliefs about who we are.

Consider what you've written above: " I mite have more guy then girl in me," "I am quite shy," "a bunch of guy friends" and "My spelling and reading problems." All of those statements are saying what you believe about yourself. Imagine that your beliefs about yourself were different. Is it possible that we can be who we want to be by changing what we believe? Is it possible that our behavior is more directed toward what we think is cool than anything that is hard-wired into our bodies?