Why does my dad hate me?

Whenever I ask for something that's 50 dollars, he says "Fuck no" in public. Even though he's a dentist and he's practically swimming in money. He screams his fucking lungs out at me. He drinks around 8 beers a day and acts like an ape. Occasionally, he hits me. When he is wrong about something, he won't listen to me trying to correct them. He is cheap as FUCK with everyone, but he spends 200 dollars a week on cigarettes, beer and wine. He calls me a spoiled shit, an idiot, and a tyrant. No dad should be treating his 11 year old daughter this way. I'm already being bullied and cyber bullied. Help.

You deserve to be safe. Don't worry about the consequences to your father. No legal harm will come to him unless he is proven to have broken laws designed to protect you. If he hasn't broken any laws, nothing will happen to him. If he is abusing you, then you should be removed from that environment. Don't feel guilty about protecting yourself. If you're being abused and you get help, you aren't "doing" anything to your dad or "hurting" him. He is an adult. Adults make choices, and face consequences when they make harmful decisions. You're a child. Whatever would happen to him isn't your fault.

Definitely talk to an adult you trust who can help you (and your dad) figure out what, if anything, should happen next. If relatives aren't helpful, talk to a guidance counselor or teacher.

Arguing with someone who is drinking rarely produces the desired result. It just escalates the situation, and potentially makes things more dangerous.

And talk to a teacher about the bullying....

I don't think your father hates you, but that he has unresolved issues. I know this may be hard for you to do, but for your own well being you need to tell an adult you trust everything you explained above. They could help you and your father. Anyways, I hope it all ends up well! Good luck. =)

Oh my god, I'm so sorry to hear about this. Appiwi39 is right, talk to another adult! I mean, sure it does sound like he's doing some things for your own well-being, but calling you all those names certainly won't do anything except hurt you mentally. And the hitting? That's a problem. If he shows signs he's drunk, I think you should probably call the police in case he gets out of hand.You're right. No father should treat his daughter this way, you're worth more than he's making it seem. I really wish you the best and good luck. Be careful!

do you have a mother? you can talk to her but if you don't then you should ether call the police which is a big thing, and the second thing you could do is try to tell the your teacher at school they will help because your teacher are there to teach you and help you don't be scared to tell people whats happing I think there a website for kids like your age that you call there number and they will help, the hardest thing is try to talk to you dad about it and try to works things out but this idea might not work by telling from your stories he really mean and he should not be treating you like that if he hits you that is a sign of child abuse saying swears and stuff like that is still mean too, I hope you can talk to people about but I'm afraid that if you do tell the police or someone like that your dad will might go to jail I'm not sure what the punishment for child abuse but you might even go to adoptions unless you have family you can live with and if you have god parents. I hope this helps and please don't let this slide this a child abuse and I very uncaring father so please tell someone but in really life not on a website ok? I hope things will clear up.