My mom is talking to a Muslim guy and I found out what should I do to let her know that I know :S?

I think its obvious it doesn't need any details !!
Anyway I was using my mom phone and I realized that this number is calling a lot so I decided to know who and it never came to my mind that it would be a guy so I took the number and searched via TrueCaller and then it was the guy and I thought that I saw this man once then I asked my mom what was the name of the guy we saw few days ago and it was the name that I found on TrueCaller please tell me what should I do ..!!?!!?
**** I'll keep editing the question so I can reply your answers
It's not easy to talk to her I don't wanna embarrass her .
And about what Rob answered my dad is alive and we live togather in one house we're a great family but I don't know what happened to her .and she talks to him everyday even every night (late) so I dont think its work .
@skyDancer I want to save my family I don't wanna lose them . Though I'm trying to stay away but I can't look at my.mom the way I was ..she was everything for me and now .. I don't know
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked 3 days ago
Edited yesterday
I think you should just ask. But maybe its a co-worker or something?
babylips101
Answered 3 days ago
I don't understand why you feel the need to get involved with who your mom talks to. Do you feel that she is incapable of making decisions on what is best for her?

You are making a lot of assumptions that need to be verified before you panic like you can't always look at someone and tell their religion, being Muslim doesn't make him a terrorist, talking to your mom doesn't mean there's a romance involved and nothing in what you say says he would be bad for her.

Babylips101 is right. Just talk to her about it.
Rob
Answered 3 days ago
I agree you're jumping to conclusions.

Also, whatever is happening between your parents is their business, not yours. Although you have an interest, it's not you're place to interfere. Let the adults handle their own relationships. It's not your responsibility to fix or save anything.
skyDancer
Answered yesterday
I understand you wanting to save your family. It's a natural response. The simple truth is children very, very rarely ever have the power to do that. This is between your parents. There's nothing you can or should do.

Recognizing that our parents are human -- and flawed humans at that -- can be traumatic. If you want to talk through it, I like crisischat.org. It's free and anonymous. Chatting with someone could be helpful.
Over the years, I've had several friends and acquaintances whose parents have divorced, and they believe there was something they could have done... that they could have held the family together if they had been smart enough, tried harder, just said the right thing, etc. It's really sad... but there is nothing the kid can do. I hope you don't punish yourself that way. Please, please, please try to understand that you are not responsible for your parents marriage. That's not a burden that belongs on young shoulders. Please learn to let this go.

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