My wife lied about her past and I found out recently that she was talking to an ex boyfriend online

My wife has lied about her past and recently I found out that she was talking to an ex boyfriend on line. She also sent him a picture wearing her bikini. When I discovered the email she said it was her cousin. But later on I found out it was an old flame who she also had been speaking to on line. She said nothing happened and that the reason she did not say it was an ex boyfriend was so I would not get angry. We have been married for 9 yrs and have 2 children but this is eating at me and the trust is gone. I really don't know what to do ... Does anyone have any comments or advice.

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im 11, and this happened 2 my parents. they woulld fight and scream, cause my dad was a jerk and went out to a bar party in LA, and came back kinda woozy, and wouldnt tell me what happened. aparentyly, he had sex with a lady, ( I have it on video... uhh.... ) and they bid all there money ( all of it !!!!!). he was extremly drunk and I was 9 when this happened. So: advice for u:

1- Ask her, do u really want to be with me? Try. Try and try again. If u love her, try to build a new trust. if not, do what my stupid parents did, get a divorce . it wont be easy if u av=ctually love her, but keep trying! :)

2- Find out more. If u still think shes lying about more, get hacking dude! wifes can be subborn, but hang in there!!!

Please dont get mad at me if these dont work! im an 11 year old girl who has had a terrible past!!!! please!!!! I wish u luck ! ;) :) ;)