What should I do with my relationship?


I dont know what will happen now, I called my wife when I reached office to appologise,but she didnt pickup the call. I tried everything to keep this relationship but unfortunately
i failed to do this. I cant handle her frequent mood swing. She hates my parents, me and everything related to me. How can I leave with a person like this? So far I was afraid
what my parents will go through when they will find out that their son's marriage life is also about to break just like their doughter, how they will feel? I have not given them
any happiness so far in my life, I have never fulfilled my duty as son, and always disrespect and hurt them, but god knows that I always wanted to be a good son and always wanted
to make them happy but couldnt do that. So far I was dragging this relationship as I didnt want to make my parents ashamed of me. Today I have reached at a stage where I have
to choose between two options 1> I continue with this relationship and keep my parents happy. 2> I brake this and keep my self happy.
From the first look it seems like the second option is better, but the point is how will I be happy when my life partner do not respect my parents, when she hates me, my culture and
everything about me? Today I live my life under a lot of tension, almost everyday I feel lot of pressure, I couldnt handle it anymore. It seems like it will effect my health.
If I want to be happy then I have to stay away from her, but that will put my parents in a very bad condition, they will be very much ashamed of me and will shy to say that I am
there son after this. I am confused and really have no idea what to do. It seems like ending life is the only option left which could save my parents reputation and this will save
me from everyday suffering as well.
pratik123
Asked Apr 01, 2013
As that's really sad... But if your relationship is that bad you need to end it and move on. Your parents will love you and should understand that your very unhappy and should want you to have better. There are a lot of other women out there, ones that will love you and respect you and your family. It's really not health for you to be in this kind of relationship, it can cause health issues and I'm sure that's not what your parents want. Really your parents should want you to be happy, not miserable. If I was you I'd get out of that relationship and find someone that will make you happy.. I hope I helped. Good luck. ~hugs~
Felicia125
Answered Apr 09, 2013

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