Is it worth it? Please answer!

I am in my late 20s. I have a great job. It is a contract position that I sign on for year by year. I love this job very much. But I have to make a decision...

I am in love with a man who lives in Europe. I would like to give our relationship a chance. He and I dated several years ago when we were in our late teens/early 20s. But then I moved away. He has a child now and has been a single dad for a few years. Since then we have kept in touch and we still feel very strongly about each other. I am getting to the age where I would like to settle down and have a family. I would have to give up my job to move overseas to be with him.

On the positive side: I have a good education and could likely get a job there quickly. I also have some friends there that I knew when I lived there. I feel isolated here a lot because my job is very solitary and have been thinking I might be just as happy in a job where I could meet more people.

On the negative: What if it didn't work out with him??

Should I take the plunge??
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Mar 19, 2013
Wow, this is a tough one. My advice would be to first apply to companies there and see what kind of salaries and benefits they are offering you. Only if its better than what you're getting should you take the plunge. Also why can't he come to where you are?
MohitMago
Answered Mar 19, 2013

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