Well ok heres the story..
My ex jayden broke up with me , and that night I was so upset and I was crying my eyes out and I couldnt talk straight. then one of his ' old friends ' said are you ok and all and I was like no im a mess .. he said well im here to talk I have all the time in the world to talk to you. I said you shouldnt care and he said but I do then me and him talked for like 4 hrs ( I know its a long time ) and after that we said bye .. I started falling for him and the day after I got broken up with me and dean started going out.. ( dean is the guy who asked if I was ok and all ) and it was good .. it was the best 3 weeks of my life . we went to kitchant dam and all and went skiing and kneeboarding it was fub and I was so happy and so was he. Not long after that he started acting kind of weird like suspicious weird. ( at school we always used to be together 24/7 ) So I said whats up with you he said " Nothing ive got to go hang with my mates" I said um ok cya this afternoon . I thought you know thats normal than that afternoon came he was in such a rush to leave it was like he didnt even want to talk to me or anything it made me feel like shit. I kept asking him whats wrong whats up and then we stopped talking for like 2 days . he rang this chick up ' one of his friends apparently ' and they talked for like 3 hours. The next day I said so who the chick you rung up he replied " what chick? " I said that chick you were talking to on the phone last night " then he got all nervous and started fidgeting with stuff. That gave me the idea he was cheating or something. So I said are you cheating on me or something.. he said no why dont you trust me . I said cause your always in such a rush and all, he said I need time with my mates to I said yeh ik but you could at least give me an explanation not just run of on me , then he started acting like he was high of something like he was laughing and running around and then he ran of.. I was like ok 3 days after that he broke up with me cause all my friends were worried about me cause I was so upset about it all so they started calling him a dawg and he got so annoyed apparently he had , had enough. so he ended it . I was fine with being friends then last night I got a phone call from him , he said hi I said hey , 10 mins into the phone call he said so who do you like I said why do you care were not going out anymore so you dont have the right to know , he said because I wanna know and cause I can know , I said well your not finding out .. Then he said you cant guess who I like I said every name I could think of besides my own and he said no. Then he said I dont have the right to talk to you cause were not going out anymore but you can change that. So I said are you trying to convince me to ask you out or something? He said no when did I say this? I said your acting like you want me to he said I never said I did or that I didnt want to. Which confused me alot so I ended up asking him out anyway again.. he said wait till monday ( tomorrow ) and ask me out at school . I said ok. Then my friend sent me some messages between them , he said to her that he doesnt want to go out with me cause he doesnt want to break my heart or upset me again and that he panicked so he said wait till monday. I then rang him up this morning and said " So you lied about not saying yes or no and the whole dating thing ? " he said yeh I just didnt want to hurt your feeling or break your heart.. I said well you couldve just told me the truth.
To sum it up , one minute he says , " I dont hate you or anything " , then he ignores me then he says " why are you talking to me you hate me.. " then he says " I wouldnt say no or yes if you asked me out ".. so im really confused.
What do I do? Ive tryed getting over him and everything but nothing seems to work..
My ex jayden broke up with me , and that night I was so upset and I was crying my eyes out and I couldnt talk straight. then one of his ' old friends ' said are you ok and all and I was like no im a mess .. he said well im here to talk I have all the time in the world to talk to you. I said you shouldnt care and he said but I do then me and him talked for like 4 hrs ( I know its a long time ) and after that we said bye .. I started falling for him and the day after I got broken up with me and dean started going out.. ( dean is the guy who asked if I was ok and all ) and it was good .. it was the best 3 weeks of my life . we went to kitchant dam and all and went skiing and kneeboarding it was fub and I was so happy and so was he. Not long after that he started acting kind of weird like suspicious weird. ( at school we always used to be together 24/7 ) So I said whats up with you he said " Nothing ive got to go hang with my mates" I said um ok cya this afternoon . I thought you know thats normal than that afternoon came he was in such a rush to leave it was like he didnt even want to talk to me or anything it made me feel like shit. I kept asking him whats wrong whats up and then we stopped talking for like 2 days . he rang this chick up ' one of his friends apparently ' and they talked for like 3 hours. The next day I said so who the chick you rung up he replied " what chick? " I said that chick you were talking to on the phone last night " then he got all nervous and started fidgeting with stuff. That gave me the idea he was cheating or something. So I said are you cheating on me or something.. he said no why dont you trust me . I said cause your always in such a rush and all, he said I need time with my mates to I said yeh ik but you could at least give me an explanation not just run of on me , then he started acting like he was high of something like he was laughing and running around and then he ran of.. I was like ok 3 days after that he broke up with me cause all my friends were worried about me cause I was so upset about it all so they started calling him a dawg and he got so annoyed apparently he had , had enough. so he ended it . I was fine with being friends then last night I got a phone call from him , he said hi I said hey , 10 mins into the phone call he said so who do you like I said why do you care were not going out anymore so you dont have the right to know , he said because I wanna know and cause I can know , I said well your not finding out .. Then he said you cant guess who I like I said every name I could think of besides my own and he said no. Then he said I dont have the right to talk to you cause were not going out anymore but you can change that. So I said are you trying to convince me to ask you out or something? He said no when did I say this? I said your acting like you want me to he said I never said I did or that I didnt want to. Which confused me alot so I ended up asking him out anyway again.. he said wait till monday ( tomorrow ) and ask me out at school . I said ok. Then my friend sent me some messages between them , he said to her that he doesnt want to go out with me cause he doesnt want to break my heart or upset me again and that he panicked so he said wait till monday. I then rang him up this morning and said " So you lied about not saying yes or no and the whole dating thing ? " he said yeh I just didnt want to hurt your feeling or break your heart.. I said well you couldve just told me the truth.
To sum it up , one minute he says , " I dont hate you or anything " , then he ignores me then he says " why are you talking to me you hate me.. " then he says " I wouldnt say no or yes if you asked me out ".. so im really confused.
What do I do? Ive tryed getting over him and everything but nothing seems to work..
Asked Mar 17, 2013
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