Would you "settle" at 28?

Would you settle to marry someone who is "good enough"? He is more like a good friend to you, no passion or chemistry but he cares for you and you get along okay most of the time.

He can be selfish at times but he makes an effort to communicate better with you and to spend time with you. But somehow you do feel very bored and unsatisfied a lot of the time.

You are turning 28 soon, you want a family and kids and marriage very much. Do you settle and make the best of it? Just wondering how others feel.
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Mar 12, 2013
I would love to settle down at 28,as iam now in college,so now I have to work hard so I am financially strong at that time.
If at that age I have a friend like you have mentioned,i would like to wait for someone better,but I think if that person is ready to do anything for you and iam happy with it, I will surely go with that person.i really dont think I would like to have a kid till iam 30 or even more than that.but marriage by 28 for sure.
zirnil
Answered Mar 12, 2013
No. If you're bored and unsatisfied now, it's going to be worse in 5-10 years down the road. By then it'll be hell on you *AND* the children. Marrying someone you know you have problems with is just going to lead to more pain for more people down the road.

28 isn't too old to start over. Settling is always a bad idea. It's actually a way of using someone to get what you want.
skyDancer
Answered Mar 12, 2013

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