Help I dont want to be known as gay (I am a 17 year old guy)

Well you see my friend and I were at my house. We were talking in my bedroom about gay people. and he said I wonder if im gay. so I asked how would you know. So we went on google and asked how do you know if you are gay. one answer said you have to have an experience. so we decided we would make out and sleep together that night since he was staying over. so we locked the door and started making out. we started stripping and that night we lied down together and made out on the bed we decided not to have gay sex though it seemed like going to far. the next day we woke up and he said ok I think I am gay. I felt a bit of a rush but dont want to be known as gay. so I said lets keep it private so now we have done it three times. he wants to reveal it to everyone now but I dont want to what should I do?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Mar 04, 2013
man why did you ask google? google doesn't have all the answers. you should've asked us first. anyway I am glad I found this as you kids are like brothers to me. Please read my answer below. :) take care.
Neither of you are gay. You both decided having gay sex would be going too far, that's the decision straight people make. Its normal to feel a rush while making out with anyone, it doesn't make you gay. Don't worry but please decide which side you want to be on. Its your decision. If you don't want to known as gay (which is another indication you are straight) then pursue the kind of girls you love and have as much straight sex as you can. Since you are likely straight you will feel an even greater rush making out with girls.

Tell your friend the same.
MohitMago
Answered Mar 07, 2013
well you dont have to be labled anything you dont want too , if anyone asks say your undecided but if your sure you are gay , dont be afraid about other people knowing , just be yourself .
shygirl3
Answered Mar 06, 2013
Depending on where you live or how your parents would react to the news, keeping your mouth shut may be wise (although very unfortunate). He can make is own choices, but he'd better respect yours. Make sure that's clear to him.
skyDancer
Answered Mar 06, 2013
Hi, I'm a girl and just so you know, I think you and your friend were curious. Don't worry, as long as you don't have any more curiosity in your mind. hoped this helped.
LadyAngela567
Answered 11 hours ago
dont dont dont! it matters:
what the f*ck ur parnets will do when they find out
what kids at school will think
how this could effect u
and, if ur teachers find out!!!! ( believe me they hear EVERYTHING!!!)

I may be 11 but I just want u to know!!! :)
gingercat20
Answered May 01, 2013
Umm well if he was gay it wouldn't effect his life teachers: so what! There teachers they won't bully him or act diff around him

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