U shudnt have spread yo legs, he cud knock u up, then how ya gon hide the fact you datin someone who thirteen yrs older? I mean jus b smart, this ain't smart, idk u but if I didn't care I'd b doin something else, n I can jus tell u this will not b good. Ik it will hurt, but u gotta cut this rlationship off. I'm sorry but for ur sake. Think of it, he is in a way different stage of life! Grown man status, finna hit the big three zero, nah mean? N u haven't even fully physically or mentally matured yet, haven't even finished school, haven't even gotten a license, can't legallydrink, u may b a yr older than me, but u must remember, ur still a littoe girl. Dating someone 13 yrs older, I wudnt even like this idea if y'all was both grown. But y u wud listen to me? Ik as ppl we can b stubborn, but I jus want the best for ya. N I'm tellin u what I think is good for u. But if u do jus have to stay with him, stop the 'sexual moments' as u said, we r not even old enough to fully grasp every concept n factor of sex, it might seem like an expression o love and in the right circumstances it is, but now is not a good time, its jus ruining ur life in ways u might not even see yet. We think were smart, but grown ups r smarter, he can seem to care about u vut really might not give a frick, somene ur age cud pull tht, but his age gives him tht much more experience n advantages over u.