Its not fair?

ok......i had sex with a 19 year old.....and my parents are putting him in jail for this....and I had to go to a cop and explain to them what we did and how we were doing it. And I dont think that it is fair for him to go to jail if we were wanting to have sex with each other. I mean if he does go to jail will he be in there for a long time or short. He is telling me that im one of his BEST FRIENDS and my parents are telling me that he is using me to get the information on what is going on...i dont no who to believe.....and it really is hurting me and I really need help for this one

Whether you agree or not, it is unlawful for someone who is legally an adult to have sexual relations with a minor and it is considered a very serious crime in most jurisdictions. Whether the minor consents to the sex doesn't make any difference. The adult is supposed to understand that minors are off limits.

When you are convicted of violating the law, there is a penalty. Your boyfriend's penalty will depend on the evidence of what happened and the laws where you live. Nobody can predict what that will be at this point.

You can avoid a lot of heartache in your life by always considering the consequences before you do it, rather than after.

Since he was put in jail, I think its safe I assume you're a minor. Number one, you're so very young, please hold onto those things when your'e able to make clear decisions and with a person you know you love and loves you back. Second, it doesn't matter if you consent. This is a serious offense in most places and whether you deem it fair or not, the law is law and they're not gonna bend it. I think you should educate yourself a bit on law as to avoid these things, and if you're not even sure if you can trust this 19 year old, don't be around him, and definitely don't be having relations with him. Even though I understand your stress and pain and am sorry, I think your causing yourself some undo stress by making some ill and quick decisions.

If this guy didn't force you to have sex with him then the best you can do is tell your parents he is a decent guy, you both made a mistake and please drop charges against him. That is if he did not force you to have sex with him.

Okay I need to tell you something he's almost a grown man and your little ( plz add your age) also wat do you know about him he could be a pedophile trying to have sex with a little kid or somthing he could have had aids or other diseases transmitted through sex and if its not fair it the law!!!!! Also you are nasty dang hes probaly lying to you all this time you know nothing you can't trust him!!! If he says your best friends he could be lying he could be lying to you all this time just to have sex with you he could have raped you in your sleep if your having trouble picturing this here imagine your a mother and your kid comes home and says I had sex with a 19 year old and your daughters like 14 or somthing you don't know the dangers also if you think it's not fair your to young to have sex with a 19 year old!!!!