Do u mean 4 & 1/2 when hard? Cuz mine when hard is 5.5-6 when its like really really hard its like six when its semi its 5 something, but soft its like 3 but u shudt worry bout ur size, even tho I worry bout mine a lot, but u have other things to think of. I have lots of pubes too and armpit hair and am starting to get some on my face and my voice is kinda deep so I kno for sure I hit it, plus I can cum. But ur prolly in a different puberty stage, but I think u have like 3-5 more yrs to grow. I think. Like if u think tht I'm like better or trying to make u feel bad, don't think tht, we all mature at different rates, and idk I think I'm goin kinda fast, but u will get there, but long as ur body works in every aspect height, weight, penis size, etc. don't matter. Just try to enjoy childhood/ or teenager-hood lol, even tho its hard to jus relax, jus try. But if ur really worried, if ur chubby and have a large stomach I heard tht will make ur dick seem smaller than it is, so its best to stay thin. But u kno I'm worried bout my size too, cuz everybody is always talkin bout how jus cuz someones black their thing shud b bigger so idek how to compare mine, idk it thts true or not so for average for my age im above but for black ppl my age idk im prolly like really small. And im black so tht sux. But I heard for our age 4 hard is around average, but everyone says they're bigger, but I haven't seen theirs and I don't really want to so theyre prolly lying. But I'm not, I think I cud get some crazy measurement like tht too if I was measuring wrong. But I measure the right way.