This incident happened 2 years ago now when I had just turned 17, the boy was 16. We were at a friends birthday at his house when this boy was being sick so I helped him out he was trying to hug me and being too friendly. I left him in the end and went downstairs. The next day he text saying he would of tried it on with me if people would have stopped coming up. I didn't believe it was him but he popped up on Facebook to prove it. I told him to stop it as at the time his girlfriend was my best friend. I told my boyfriend but he didn't want to believe it.
The next weekend we all went to this boys house thinking. One minute I was fine and the next I was out of it I can only remember flashbacks of that night. I went upstairs and I remember the boy being in the room with me. I was trying to sleep when he crouched down beside me and said "shhhh don't tell anyone" I didn't know what he was on about so I fell asleep. The next day I woke up with a love bite on my neck and a hangover. I knew something was wrong.
I went home and was contacted my the boys girlfriend saying I had kissed another boy. I had no recollection of it at all and I was devastated as I have a boyfriend I told him straight away. I ended up telling my friend about her boyfriends behaviour the previous weekend and the texts but she didn't believe me.
Things slowly went back to normal but last night the truth came out. The boy who I had kissed the night suddenly came out with "just because you were raped by ....." I told him to not say such a thing and took him to one side. He went all serious and told me he had something to tell me and he got teary eyed. He has a confession about that night. After he had put all the pieces together he told me the other boy came down from his room and said "don't worry mate you're not alone I fingered her" my stomach turned and I burst into tears. I cannot remember anything but flashbacks. I feel dirty and I don't know what to do? Is this sexual assault?
The next weekend we all went to this boys house thinking. One minute I was fine and the next I was out of it I can only remember flashbacks of that night. I went upstairs and I remember the boy being in the room with me. I was trying to sleep when he crouched down beside me and said "shhhh don't tell anyone" I didn't know what he was on about so I fell asleep. The next day I woke up with a love bite on my neck and a hangover. I knew something was wrong.
I went home and was contacted my the boys girlfriend saying I had kissed another boy. I had no recollection of it at all and I was devastated as I have a boyfriend I told him straight away. I ended up telling my friend about her boyfriends behaviour the previous weekend and the texts but she didn't believe me.
Things slowly went back to normal but last night the truth came out. The boy who I had kissed the night suddenly came out with "just because you were raped by ....." I told him to not say such a thing and took him to one side. He went all serious and told me he had something to tell me and he got teary eyed. He has a confession about that night. After he had put all the pieces together he told me the other boy came down from his room and said "don't worry mate you're not alone I fingered her" my stomach turned and I burst into tears. I cannot remember anything but flashbacks. I feel dirty and I don't know what to do? Is this sexual assault?
Asked Jan 26, 2013
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